Written by Maria Boncyk, LCSW | Reviewed July 2026
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Maria Boncyk, LCSW provides fully virtual complex trauma therapy to teens and adults across New York and Massachusetts. She uses EMDR, somatic awareness, and attachment-focused approaches to treat the effects of prolonged trauma, including hypervigilance, emotional overwhelm, and relationship difficulties. Start with a free 15-minute consultation.
What Complex Trauma Actually Feels Like
Complex trauma happens when hard experiences repeat over months or years, often starting in childhood, until your nervous system organizes itself around survival.
- You scan rooms and read moods automatically, always braced for something to go wrong.
- Emotions arrive in waves that feel bigger than the moment, followed by shame.
- Your inner voice may be harsh, sounding a lot like the people who hurt you.
- You care for everyone but trust no one to care for you, or relationships swing into explosive conflict.
- You may look composed and capable, which is itself a survival skill.
- None of this means you are broken. You adapted to something that should not have happened.
How Maria Treats Complex Trauma
Complex trauma is the center of Maria’s specialization, shaped by 15+ years in community mental health, crisis work, and private practice.
- EMDR helps your brain reprocess traumatic memories so they stop hijacking the present.
- Maria completed EMDR basic training in 2021, intermediate training in 2022, and Relational EMDR training in 2026.
- EMDR is recognized by the World Health Organization and the American Psychiatric Association as an evidence-based trauma treatment.
- Wounds made in relationships need relationships to heal, so therapy offers steady care without judgment, shame, or agenda.
- Attachment-focused and psychodynamic work show how old survival strategies became today’s patterns, and somatic awareness helps you read your body.
- Nothing is forced. Processing happens only when enough stability is in place, and you control what is approached and when.
Ready to Take the First Step?
Complex Trauma Therapy sessions are virtual, anywhere in New York or Massachusetts. Start with a free 15-minute consultation, with no commitment.
What the Course of Treatment Looks Like
Treatment moves in phases, not on a fixed timeline. Weekly 50-minute virtual sessions are the standard rhythm.
Safety and stabilization
You build skills to notice and steady what happens in your body and emotions, because processing without stability can overwhelm.
Processing the roots
EMDR and relational work address the memories, inner messages, and patterns learned in unsafe relationships.
Carrying change forward
You bring your new abilities into your relationships, your work, and your sense of who you are.
An honest timeline
This work often spans many months to a few years. Gains like better boundaries and a quieter inner critic often come well before the end.
Who This Therapy Is Right For
This work fits teens and adults across New York and Massachusetts who recognize long-standing patterns in their lives.
- Chronic anxiety or emptiness that started before any single event.
- Relationships that repeat the same painful dynamics, or a harsh, unstable sense of self.
- PTSD symptoms like flashbacks and avoidance, layered with relationship wounds.
- You understand your patterns from past talk therapy, but understanding alone has not changed how you feel.
- Doubting that your experiences count as real trauma is often part of the wound. If it shapes your life, it deserves care.
- If you are in active crisis, managing an untreated substance dependency, or need more than weekly support, a higher level of care comes first.
Trauma Therapy From Home in New York or Massachusetts
A therapist’s office is not always a comfortable place for trauma survivors. Virtual sessions let you do this work from a space you control.
- EMDR adapts well to telehealth, using visual and bilateral methods designed for video sessions.
- Maria has provided trauma-focused teletherapy since 2021.
- Appointments run Monday through Thursday, 9 AM to 7 PM Eastern.
- Maria is an out-of-network (OON) provider, confirms coverage details with you first, and supports out-of-network reimbursement.
- The practice is AI-free, so nothing from your sessions is recorded, transcribed, or processed by AI tools.
